Have you ever noticed that whenever a hot woman walks into the room

Your cadence changes.

You sit upright.

You readjust yourself to make yourself more appealing.

Even if she does not give you the slightest glance

A force within you automatically compels you to try to impress her through conscious or subliminal body language

If women didn’t exist

Men would not go to war.

In fact, we would be perfectly satisfied with doing nothing but farming and brawling every single day.

Everything men chase is one way or the other tied to women.

Power, money, fame, status, family, bodybuilding, you name it.

Women provide the one thing men want the most - SEX.

Early cavemen used to endanger their lives to hunt mammoths that were 100 times their size.

They would engage in physical combat to prove they were the strongest.

They would sail treacherous seas and vast oceans.

All this just to be desirable by the women around them.

The thirst for sex is one of the strongest biological forces.

This is both a flaw and a blessing.

Why?

Because sex can either be your greatest distractor or your biggest motivation.

Let’s analyze my personal stories together shall we:

CASE 1:

I had a crush on this girl back in college.

I got her number through a friend and we quickly hit it off.

In only a few days of exchanging texts

I was convinced I had met my soulmate.

A woman I only met a couple of days ago was now the thing I couldn’t live without.

My monkey brain got addicted to the dopamine from her notifications.

Talking to her was all I could think of.

I would be restless and anxious if she took too long to reply.

The emotional rollercoaster made it impossible to focus and be productive.

Not surprisingly this was a phase of my life when I lacked purpose and self-mastery.

CASE 2

In my first serious relationship

The girl I was dating was way above my league.

I knew other guys were vying for her attention.

This motivated me to hustle harder so I could provide more for her.

In case 1 my emotional energy was a distraction. In case 2 it was a motivator.

A man’s emotional energy will either empower him or destroy him.

One influential factor is timing.

What phase of your life are you in?

Think about this logically and critically.

There’s a phase when you can accommodate women. There’s a time when you need to be ruthless and cut off every thread of distraction.

Women love attention. Attention costs time and focus. You are sacrificing mental energy that could be better spent on your own goals.

HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE READY FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP

Answer these questions to measure your readiness.

• Are you emotionally stable?

• Are you financially stable enough?

• Do you have a job and a good work ethic?

• Are you struggling with any serious addiction?

• Have you mastered your discipline and routines?

• Are you on a steady trajectory to becoming your ideal self?

Take a good look in the mirror and be honest with yourself.

When was the last time a woman was genuinely excited to talk to you?

When was the last time a woman went out of her way to make you happy?

When was the last time a woman was fascinated by your goals and ambitions?

If your answers aren’t positive

Then you have work to do.

Not because you don’t deserve a relationship

But because you are not yet a full-fledged man.

Don’t accept mediocrity, from yourself and others.

Desperation for love is a sure path to self-destruction.

Take a break from the skirt-chasing.

Just for a few weeks.

Get your physique right. Get your mind right. Get your business flourishing.

Do the inner and outer work. Improve your game and confidence.

Trust me when I say, women will literally chase you when you have your shit together.

Do yourself a favor and prioritize your happiness and fulfillment.

She will be attracted to that aura of self-disciple and self-assurance

Women, and I mean real women, are biologically wired to seek men who can provide comfort, guarantee their survival, and inseminate them with good genes.

Never sacrifice your goals for cheap pleasures.

It’s not about being emotionally closed off.

It’s about having your priorities straight, delaying gratifications, and developing the willpower to make hard decisions.

HOW TO KNOW IF A GIRL IS WORTH YOUR TIME

• Do your values align?

• Does she get really excited to see you or talk to you?

• Are you putting in more effort to win her over than she’s putting in to make you happy?

Set a high standard for yourself. Every time you settle for a transactional relationship you lose a part of yourself.

Never be needy. Never beg for love or attention. Never beg for sex.

You are most vulnerable to manipulation when you are emotionally fragile.

Being emotionally composed will save you a lot of heartache.

HOW TO RECHANNEL YOUR EMOTIONAL AND SEXUAL ENERGY.

Energy can neither be created nor destroyed.

It can flow. It can change directions.

Sexual discipline is a cheat code for winning in life.

As a man, society will always judge you on your status and achievements, whether you like it or not.

If you are young and broke, you don’t have the luxury of chatting with chicks 24/7.

The best thing about being a man is that you age like fine wine. Your life will be a continuous upward trajectory if you are hardworking. You will keep getting wiser, richer, and more connected. Your standard for women is directly proportional to the time and effort you put into improving your life.

• Be obsessed with self-improvement 

  Hit the gym, launch that business, learn a new language, learn a new skill, build your network, and build your personal brand. Maximize every hour of your life to become your best self If you are investing a lot into a woman, make sure you see her as your ideal wife and the future queen of your empire.

• Protect your emotional energy
  Avoid romance movies. Delete TikTok. Unfollow every thirst trap model on Instagram. These are vampires that feed on your precious energy, focus, and creative juices. Follow inspiring men and educative pages. Be very conscious of what you consume. Don’t make things harder for yourself. Throw out music with thrashy sexual lyrics. Garbage, in garbage out. If you can curate your consumption you can master your celibacy.

• Raise your consciousness

  Your sexual force is your spiritual force. Meditation can help you become more aware of your thoughts and emotions, including sexual desires. By acknowledging and observing these desires without judgment, you can gain better control over your impulses and gradually redirect that energy into spiritual maturity.

The body loves comfort. The mind is a chatterbox. The heart is a helpless fool. You can not let your heart, body, and mind direct your life. You must lead from a deeper place of authority and awareness.

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